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Sitting and staring at a wall

This week I’ve a lot going on. We’re working on building some fairly big things at work from the ground up, I’ve started exercising again (mainly for this) and then all the other miscellaneous life things that happen to all of us. When we came in from our young couples house church last night, my brain couldn’t turn off. Then I asked myself, did I want to turn it off?

I thought about it while on the train ride home from work yesterday. I looked around and saw everyone around me with their nose in a book or their phone or tablet. Then I found myself not being able to sit still long either and pulled out my Kindle Fire. Because the 15 minutes of idleness my train ride gives me is just too much.

Flicking the “Off” Switch

So last night, I sat in an arm chair in our living room before going to bed. My dog jumped up in my lap and I just sat there, pet my dog, and stared at a wall.

I’m not sure what I thought about. If anything. I do know it was totally relaxing. I may have sat there for about 15-20 minutes just blankly staring at a wall, scratching Theo’s head.  I didn’t pull out my laptop or open a book, just sat still.

You know what? When I went to bed, I was remarkably relaxed and fell asleep quickly. I woke up this morning with a clear head, hardly any stress and questions I didn’t have answers for leaving the office yesterday suddenly became clear when I woke up.

Sitting still – not just physically but letting our brains sit still – is underrated. Sometimes we need to shut down, even if it’s just for a few minutes. When my computer overheats, the best thing I can do is turn it off. My guess is that our brains require similar maintenance.

There’s even research that says zoning out is crucial. 

So, if you see anyone blankly staring at a wall, they may not be crazy. They’re just recharging.


  • http://twitter.com/barrykirk Barry Kirk

    Great insight, Drew. I think there’s actually some interesting neuroscience that would back up your notion that sometimes the best thing we can do for our thought process is to…stop thinking for a while. In an earlier time the idea of quiet and solitude were just an expected part of daily life. People used to sit on their porches at night and stare out at the street lights. Now we feel like every second we’re awake should be full of activity and data input, simply because it can be. A little more staring at blank walls would be good for all of us.

    • http://www.brainwads.net/drewhawkins Drew Hawkins

      I didn’t even think about the norms back in the day. Maybe the “win space” in future business will be taking the time to stare at walls since most of us are compelled to consume something at all times?

  • Mom

    Well said…goes right along with my recent post “Just Be Quiet” Quiet and just clearing our minds is the greatest and most needed therapy at times. It is easy these days to get on overload with all the instant info coming at us 24/7. Hope you are having a great weekend and are chilling with the family. Hugs and Love! Mom

  • Dad

    There are times when I did little until I shut down for awhile. My greatest frustrations in life have been due to trying to stay awake or focus hard on a task and not being able to do it. So true. Well stated.